tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post8843148509978743027..comments2023-11-03T06:16:22.005-07:00Comments on ShoppingKharma: What comes around goes around: A Wonderful Day with my Honey....Shopping Kharmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13510990791844041645noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post-51735763385559394952014-11-26T21:48:41.549-08:002014-11-26T21:48:41.549-08:00you are doing great!! get it ON!!you are doing great!! get it ON!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13447373334083736496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post-55388240679814393052010-01-14T15:18:08.376-08:002010-01-14T15:18:08.376-08:00Hey J Happy New Year been wondering how you are do...Hey J Happy New Year been wondering how you are doing hugs & Love ME!!~ :):):)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post-88402261547865058102010-01-13T11:20:53.201-08:002010-01-13T11:20:53.201-08:00CJ, I'm just reading this today (01/13/10) and...CJ, I'm just reading this today (01/13/10) and feeling really sad for your situation. I can just imagine the disappointment you must have felt. I know when I was in active chemo (and felt like I was dying) there were people who totally dropped me out of their lives. I figured they weren't as strong as me and couldn't handle it. In fact, I remember writing a blogpost where I said, "I'm the one with cancer though you're the one who died." Because they didn't call or come around or even say a word. Scared! Too fearful. I guess. <br />Though,I can understand your aunts position (a bit) because of the obesity issue. Who the heck wants to fly. But still. What a disappointing situation all the way around.<br />At least you an rely on your dad. And seeing your bro via Skype. Can that be set up for the auntie?<br />Maybe that is the solution and even then, maybe she would be too emotional to handle it.<br /><br />Why can't people put aside their own whiny b.s. when a person is worse off than them? I don't get it.Levihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07369763028982948026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post-49358172553342757392010-01-11T05:52:09.806-08:002010-01-11T05:52:09.806-08:00I'm sorry you were not able to see your family...I'm sorry you were not able to see your family. You did a lot of work to prepare and were looking forward to it so much. I had a similar thing happen after my shoulder surgery; I busted my butt (and sore shoulder) getting myself and the house presentable and was so excited to have visitors after being cooped up so long. We waited and waited until finally at the last minute they called saying my brother-in-law had a sniffle! But then the next day they drove through the entire state of Michigan to go camping! I was so pissed and disappointed. So I know how you feel :( Going through all the why's and trying to figure out why they would ignore you. Remember THEY are the ones missing out on YOUR presence!! <br /><br />P.S. too bad about those Packers! I hope the Vikings lose bad to the Cowboys :) (I'm in Indiana but I root for both the Colts and the Packers as my family is from WI also)stipeygirl75https://www.blogger.com/profile/05880655430611653856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post-23012325389471481332010-01-10T11:21:49.542-08:002010-01-10T11:21:49.542-08:00Much love from everyone in Wisconsin, Jayne. Remem...Much love from everyone in Wisconsin, Jayne. Remember that we are here, and can be <i>there</i>, for you whenever you need us!<br />Love NicoleNicole Brownnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post-43705845314679863932010-01-10T09:52:26.403-08:002010-01-10T09:52:26.403-08:00CJ
Sorry your family couldn't make it out. The...CJ<br />Sorry your family couldn't make it out. The snow and cold has been pretty brutal in Kentucky/ Missouri/ Kansas. I wish though that they had hunkered down in the hotel and flown out a day or two later.I had to postpone a trip to visit my daughter by a day because of the weather.<br /><br />Being sick takes so much control away - and unfortunately we can't control other folks and their reactions to different situations. <br /><br />You have faced your decisions with such strength- and with the support of your husband, pets and friends. <br /><br />cyber hugs<br />DeeDeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06931475093653727831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post-31510217772874462592010-01-10T08:35:53.621-08:002010-01-10T08:35:53.621-08:00CJ, I'm sorry you had to face such a huge disa...CJ, I'm sorry you had to face such a huge disappointment, especially after having worked so hard to get your family here and make all the preparations. <br /><br />Families are over-rated. But CHOSEN families--now they're the best. And I'm glad you have such an awesome chosen family made up of your hubby, pets, and friends, because they will sustain you. <br /><br />Happy new year! Take gentle care.<br /><br />your friend from SacAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post-15268156740168437562010-01-10T01:11:40.779-08:002010-01-10T01:11:40.779-08:00I'm so sorry CJ, but I'm glad that you und...I'm so sorry CJ, but I'm glad that you understand who your mom and Aunt are and are still able to love them despite the disappointment...you are a wonderful example of the compassion we should all exhibit. Your will is so strong, this won't be the first time those doctors and nurses will be proven wrong:)<br /><br />xoxoKia Taylorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08509415105327925384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post-9209494736524074552010-01-09T16:35:42.032-08:002010-01-09T16:35:42.032-08:00family? uff..babe, you are the best - no-one can b...family? uff..babe, you are the best - no-one can beat what you are doing. Maybe your Aunt was just to scared to fly?<br /><br />whatever - you are doing great!! get it ON!!l'optimistehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09822694635023060681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post-43585863640266990082010-01-09T11:21:58.468-08:002010-01-09T11:21:58.468-08:00I've been reading your blog for a while - just...I've been reading your blog for a while - just want to say good luck for the New Year from a very snowy Scotland. (I've had ovarian cancer but a much earlier stage than you.) It's so tough when people let you down like that but maybe your aunt was just looking for an excuse not to fly. I'm sure they won't have understood how much you were wanting to see them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001743008732915964.post-86419225835336556602010-01-08T22:56:17.964-08:002010-01-08T22:56:17.964-08:00(((CJ)))
I'm so sorry that you were disappoin...(((CJ)))<br /><br />I'm so sorry that you were disappointed by your family. I know you really really wanted to see them. :( Unfortunately, we have no control over what anyone else does or doesn't do. Some people that I expected to be right with me through the cancer, weren't there. However, many others surprised me with their kindnesses and compassion. <br />You are blessed to have so many wonderful people in your life. Let them try to fill your void. Still, I wish they would have come for you. <br /><br />You have my full support. Only we can make decisions about our lives. You have such a strong will and desire to live - you amaze me! <br /><br />Big hugs CJ, and to that wonderful man of yours (and Blue Belle, and Tonto too!)nathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04344967285314604327noreply@blogger.com